How to Date as a Senior
Love isn’t only for the young. And hey, nobody really knows how long sasquatches live for (except for me, and that’s a secret I’ll never tell), but I can assure you that plenty of us date well into our senior years. Learning how to date as a senior can seem daunting and even scary at times, but there are a few simple tricks and things to learn to make it as fun as it’s meant to be!
How Do Seniors Start Dating?
One of the most significant differences between learning how to date as a senior and dating as somebody younger is figuring out where to start. Some of the common spots for meeting people, like clubs and parties, are harder to come by the older you get. Fortunately, there are lots of places that you can try. But how do seniors hang out?
Instead of trying out fancy restaurants or clubs, think about where you go to be social. Places like community centers, senior-only fitness classes, or other hobby clubs are great places to go to meet (and spend time with) your next date. It also means that you’ll be meeting people with similar interests to you, so you already have your first conversation topic ready!
Embracing technology is also an excellent way for seniors to learn how to start dating. Most common dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have no limit to how old users can be. There are also websites specific to seniors, like Silver Singles. Check out the
Sasquatch Approved guide to the best online senior dating sites to find out more.
What Do Seniors Do on A First Date?
So, you’ve made it to the next step and found yourself a date! Now comes the hard part of deciding what to do on your first date as a senior.
One of the simplest ways to decide what to do on your first date is to choose where you have some common ground. Are you both interested in art? Going to a museum or a gallery can be the perfect start to a fun afternoon. Or, if you want to keep it casual, why not try going on a walk through the park and sharing a meal afterward?
The best things to do on a first date as a senior are things that can give you both an opportunity to talk. Places like movies or concerts prevent you from having deep discussions and making a deeper connection with your date, so save those for the second or third date!
What Are Good Senior Dates?
Speaking of the second or third date, many wonder what good senior dates beyond the first one are. Keeping the spark alive and creating a further connection is as important as that initial flame.
Some more exciting activities include taking a class together, like a cooking or dance class, going to a winery, or playing your favorite sport together.
If you want to keep things more comfortable or at home, try learning how to cook each other’s favorite meals at home and take turns in the kitchen. You could also have a stay-in movie day, play board games or other card games, or spend the day chatting by the fire.
The Do’s and Don’ts of Senior Dating
Most seniors have more dating experience than the younger crowd. For others, it might have been a while since you last put yourself out there. There are a few simple do’s and don’ts when learning how to date as a senior that you may want to keep in mind.
Some of the most important things to remember are staying confident, being yourself, being open to new experiences, and trusting your intuition!
The biggest don’t of senior dating is to make sure you don’t fall for any dating scams. You’d hate to think you’re going on a date with somebody your age and type and walk in to find a young sasquatch waiting for you! Scams or catfishing can be common on dating sites and apps, so always make sure to talk to somebody on the phone before meeting up with them in public for the first time. And if you’re still worried, remember that you can always meet up in a public place or try to make it a group date.
Learning how to date a senior doesn’t have to be scary. You’re both coming into the relationship with plenty of life experiences, stories to share, and years of fun to be had! Don’t let fear hold you back, and put yourself out there!